Thursday, October 30, 2008

What about my marriage? It may be nullified.

Okay, I'm sorry that for me that it's all Prop8, all the time, but this has an enormous impact on my life.

From today's LA Times, they are talking about my recent marriage:
Proposition 8 would amend the state Constitution to define marriage as only between a man and a woman, but the measure does not address what would happen to the estimated 16,000 same-sex couples who have tied the knot since gay marriage became legal in California on June 17.

If voters next week approve the initiative to ban gay nuptials, legal analysts on both sides of the measure predict that a period of "legal chaos" will ensue, with the legality of same-sex marriages performed between June and November suddenly in doubt...

Because a challenge to existing marriages would raise novel questions, no one is certain how the courts would rule. Two family law scholars interviewed by The Times predicted that the marriages would remain intact, while five constitutional scholars were divided over which side the law favors.


Update:
Saturday, November 1, 2008, while those in favor of amending the state constitution to eliminate same-sex marriage are gathering at [San Diego's] Qualcomm Stadium to pray for the passage of Proposition 8, marriage equality proponents will be holding a vigil of their own. Beginning at 8:45 pm on Saturday, November 1st signs and candles will be distributed at the San Diego LGBT Center (3909 Center Street). At 9pm, No on 8 supporters will line up on University Avenue through Hillcrest.

What can you do? Well, if you are near San Diego, go participate in the vigil to counter the publicity given to the Christianist bigots at the stadium. Call, email, write your friends. Join the phone banks. And donate so that the opposition can't hog the airwaves this weekend with their out-of-state riches.

4 comments:

  1. IT, regardless of the vote on Tuesday, you and BP are married.

    The horse cannot be put back in the barn after the barn has burned down.

    Everyone loves the photo of you two and the roses which sits on my living room table. It's started many good conversations.

    Also, I finally put a NO sign in my front garden. I should have done it months ago.

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  2. As I mentioned before, the California Secretary of State's website updates daily the identity of donors and the amount of the the donations to the organizations supporting and opposing Prop. 8, where the donations are at least $1000.

    Yesterday, the vast majority of donations in support of Prop. 8 came from outside California, largely from Texas, with a number of donations from Idaho, Utah, and New Mexico. Most donations in opposition to Prop. 8 are from California. Yesterday's geographical origins of the donations for and against Prop. 8 has been the norm for quite awhile.

    I've become very resentful, frankly, of people from these states trying to cram their views down the throats of the people who live here in California.

    If we tried to cram our views down their throats they'd be screaming bloody murder.

    There's something profoundly un-Chrisian about treating the Golden Rule as a one-way street.

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  3. There are No on 8 rallies being held by people of faith all around California.

    [Dang. I only heard about it as an email: no link. Ergo, here it is, at length]



    A Call to

    People of Faith to

    Stand Together for

    Equality and Justice




    Solidarity and justice are core values of every major faith tradition in the world. Every faith calls its followers to treat others as you want to be treated. This weekend people of faith throughout California are coming together to express these values as we stand together with our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters as their very lives are voted on November 4. Come join Jews and Christians, Muslims and Mormons, Buddhists and Unitarians as we speak, as we pray, as we act, as we sing for our lives!



    Come, people of faith,

    stand with us against Prop 8!



    Come, people of faith,

    with your family and friends and let us rise to the occasion!



    Come, people of faith,

    let us make our voices heard on this essential issue of justice!



    This is our moment, this is our time

    to stand up and be counted when it counts!





    Schedule of Faith Events




    Saturday, November 1, 2008

    Los Angeles

    12.00 PM

    St. John's Cathedral

    Faith for Equality:

    A Multi-Faith No on Prop 8 Celebration,

    with Fr. Geoff Farrow, George Takei,

    Rosa Manriquez, Rabbi Allen Freehling,

    Rev. Mike Schuenemeyer

    Address: 514 W Adams Los Angeles

    For more information:

    Rev. Debra Peevey

    email: deb@noonprop8.com

    phone: 623-670-6598



    San Francisco

    11.00 AM

    Glide Memorial United Methodist Church

    Standing on the Side of Love

    Celebration & Rally

    Address: 330 Ellis St., San Francisco, CA

    For more information:

    Betty Jeanne Rueters Ward

    UULMOrganizer@gmail.com



    Long Beach

    2.00 PM, Interfaith Service

    3.00-5.00 PM, Activities

    First Congregational Church-Long Beach

    Interfaith Service/Visibility Effort

    with Rev. Jerry Stinson and Rev. Gary Commins

    Address: 241 Cedar Ave Long Beach, Long Beach, CA

    For more information:

    Rev. Dr. Jonipher Kwong

    email: jonipher@cafaithforequality.org

    phone: 310-592-5533



    Inland Empire

    10.00 AM

    Redlands UCC

    No on 8 Forum

    Address: 168 Bellevue Ave., Redlands, CA

    For more information:

    email: noon8redlands@gmail.com


    San Diego

    10.00 AM

    St. Paul's Cathedral

    Interfaith Service & Press Conference

    Address: 2728 6th Ave San Diego

    For more information:

    Jan Garbosky

    jgarbosky@cox.net

    phone: 619-987-3346





    Modesto

    4.15 PM

    College Avenue UCC

    Service of Hope

    with Rev. Michael Schiefelbein,

    Rev. Grace Simons, Rev. Russ Matteson,

    and Rev. Erin Matteson

    Address: 1341 College Avenue, Modesto, CA

    For more information:

    Stephanie Stoltei







    San Jose

    First Unitarian Church of San Jose

    Day of the Dead Alter with No on 8 Theme

    Address: 160 N Third St., San Jose, CA

    For more information:

    Details to be announced.





    Sacramento

    12.00 PM

    Central United Methodist Church

    Sing Out the Vote & Take to the Streets –

    an Interfaith No on 8 Celebration, with

    Address: 5265 H St., Sacramento, CA

    For more information:

    Mary Helen Doherty

    email: mhdoherty@comcast.net

    phone: 916-708-3390



    Sunday, November 2, 2008

    Central Valley

    2.00-4.00 PM

    Fresno City Hall Plaza

    Faith Communities and Others Speak Out in Opposition to Prop 8

    with, Fr. Geoff Farrow, Rev. Bryan Jessup

    Address: 2600 Fresno St Fresno

    For more information:

    Anne W. Jenny

    email: awjenny@sbcglobal.net

    phone: 559-862-4559



    Motherlode

    1.00-5.00 PM

    Public Rally

    Address: Sonoma, CA

    For more information:

    Details to be announced.



    Santa Rosa

    7.00 PM

    Center for Spiritual Living

    "Live Equally, Love Equally" - Interfaith Service in Support of Marriage Equality

    Address:

    2075 Occidental Rd, Santa Rosa, CA

    For more information:

    Deborah Mason

    debmasonuu@yahoo.com

    phone: 805-850-5818




    Orange County

    4.00-8.00 PM

    Orange Coast Unitarian Universalist Church

    Interfaith Service followed by Phone Banking

    with Rev. Dr. Karen Stoyanoff

    Address: 1259 Victoria St. Costa Mesa, CA

    For more information:

    Rev. Dr. Karen Stoyanoff

    email: karen@goshining.org

    phone: 714-906-9830



    San Francisco

    11.00 AM

    First Unitarian Universalist Church

    Goin' to the Chapel: A Wedding and a Vigil in Defense of Marriage for All

    with Rev. Greg Stewart, includes screening of film "Inlaws & Outlaws"

    Address: 1187 Franklin St at Geary

    For more information:

    Rev. Greg Stewart

    Email: gstewart@uusf.org

    Phone: (415) 776-4580





    Sonora

    1.00-5.00 PM

    County Park

    Tuolomne County NO on 8







    Stockton

    12.00-3.00 PM

    Caldwell Park

    Grande Finale Rally & March

    with Molly McKay and John Boisa



    Monday, November 3, 2008

    Pasadena

    5.00 PM

    Neighborhood Church

    Public Rally & screening of "The Preachers Sons"

    Address: 301 N Orange Grove, Pasadena, CA

    For more information:

    Terri Hopper

    tshopper@roadrunner.com



    San Francisco

    First Unitarian Universalist Church

    Overnight Vigil

    7.30 PM, Monday, November 3 - 8.00 PM, Tuesday, November 4

    Goin' to the Chapel: A Wedding and a Vigil in Defense of Marriage for All

    with Rev. Greg Stewart, includes screening of film "Inlaws & Outlaws"

    Address: 1187 Franklin St at Geary

    For more information:

    Rev. Greg Stewart

    Email: gstewart@uusf.org

    Phone: (415) 776-4580





    Wednesday, November 5, 2008

    Walnut Creek

    6:30 - 7:30 pm

    Mt. Diablo UU Church

    Post-Election Meditation Service

    with Revs. Leslie and David Takahashi-Morris

    Address: 55 Eckley Lane

    For more information:

    Revs. Leslie and David Takahashi Morris

    Email: leslietm@mduuc.org

    Phone: 925-934-3135

    ****************************

    Now, Californians, get together and make some prayer!

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  4. As Susan Russell notes, It's getting ugly out there ...

    The right-wing fundamentalists view the Prop. 8 election as perhaps the most important battle in the culture war. Anyone who thinks that the Prop. 8 election is just about gay marriage or just about gay people is, frankly, a naive idiot. If they win this one, they're not not stopping just here ....

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